Is my partner cheating?
KNOWING THE TELL - TALE SIGNS
We have watched many marriages and relationships being torn apart because of infidelity and dishonesty. It is heart wrenching to witness beloved friends having to live their worst nightmare as they discover their spouse or partner has been selfish and unfaithful.
Cheating doesn’t start suddenly, it is an idea festering in your partner over time and mostly you do not want to acknowledge and ignore it.
This type of emotional cheating that can start in the office, the gym or most commonly online. Online we can see and find other people more attractive, sexier and making our dreams come true.
In a healthy relationship, your partner will allow you to talk on his or her phone without fear, however pay attention if:
SOCIAL MEDIA PROFILES
An unfaithful partner or spouse will have their social media profiles (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram etc.) presented as if they are single, with no strings attached with heaps of photos with their friends from their younger days. How much time does your spouse or partner spend on social media and at what times?
Always observe when your spouse or partner has a late-night out, sometimes a boy’s night out is just a cover for something more sinister.Have they joined the gym but they never take their sports equipment? Car wash must be done on Saturday morning in a suburb 20 km away from yours?!
Be careful not to jump to conclusions. Your spouse's newfound desire to be more physically attractive might be a result of trying to look more professional at work, or they are just trying to catch your eye.
However, if you have noticed any of the other signs on this list, you may have a problem. When seeking a new relationship or adventure, people usually take extra care in managing their appearance.
THINGS YOU WILL HEAR
When your mutual friends start acting strangely toward you, because they either know about the cheating or have been told stories about your horrible partner.
When your partners’ co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence, because either they know about the affair or have heard rumours and horror stories about it.